Ice play is what is says it is: Play with ice on your partner. Many people have tried an ice cube on the nipple. And the sensations are like pain in a way, without the pain in fact. BDSM people call it sensation play or temperature play and certain kind of wax like from candles are included in that category as well (later on A-Z :-).
Ice play on the body with just a cube of ice is nice and all, but it is wonderful if you can combine that with a simple but effective bondage. To have the naked body spread out in a big X shape, arms and legs securely but a bit loose bound. The more my girl wriggles, the more I like it. If you are a sensation seeker you can add a blindfold as well. Be unpredictable. Search for combinations of the body she won’t expect. You will have my word for it, you this will not be the last time you have played like this.
If you are feeling truly adventurous you can try the frozen dildo. On this site Franklin Veaux’s Journal he explains (with pictures! very well) how to make your own frozen dildo with nothing more than a condom, the cardboard tube of a paper towel roll and boiled water (you have cooled down of course before pouring in the condom!!).
As a safety I have to add some measures to this article:
- If you take the ice dildo from the wash it with warm water at the outside some, the ice rests on the outside will go away and the melting process starts a bit already.
- Always use plenty of lube before you want to enter that tender area. It slides more easy in and out this way, and it adds to the sensation.
- Use the end of the dildo to fuck. Not insert it too long without moving it, your partner will only get cold and that is not erotic. We want to add a stimulants, not making her frozen. Go to the dairy department of your shopping mall if you want only your partner served cold. Or visit an ice artist exhibition.
- Before you begin with any cold play, make your beloved hot first!!